My Grandmother Asked Me to Tell You She’s Sorry by Fredrik Backman

Another great book about personal relationships among a disparaging group of people!  Granny is a bit of an oddity and Elsa loves her dearly. I laughed at the antics between the two and the escapades they encountered. What I really liked about this book is how each letter told a story and how we learned about the interconnected nature of the tenants and the house as we did. 

Granny was way ahead of her time. She did everything folks told her she couldn’t but when her granddaughter was born she came back to care for her in a way she had not done for her own daughter, Urlika.  A doctor by profession, Granny would take lost cases in if she could not heal them.  Seemingly complete strangers were very connected. Everyone had a sad tale, a need of rescuing, a fear to overcome and she gave them all a place to do that even though she sometimes made life more difficult for them.

I liked the way her helped Elsa overcome her Granny’s death by giving her a friend in the wurse.  What child doesn’t like a dog.  Elsa was afraid of the dog to begin with. After all, it was living with the Monster. Personally, I think the dog is lucky to have survived all the sweets and mulled wine it consumed! Elsa overcame each fear she had by delivering the letters left by Granny. Each time she got scared she remembered the fairytales she had been told. She was surprised to realize she knew each of the players and they lived with her in the house.

Elsa is a bright little girl. She likes things right! She loves science, super heroes, grammar and the wurse. I found it interesting that she was also bullied at school because she was more mature than her peers. The ways she grows as a person is amazing.  She pays attention to details. She does not hesitate to say what is on her mind. The relationship with her own mother develops as does the relationships to the others.  I think her grandmother was correct to leave the house to her. 

Other characters are equally interesting. Britt-Marie is the next book from this author I will probably read. I never imagined when I started the book that there were families living almost as strangers, deep secrets hidden behind closed doors and each came to light through a precocious child.

Big Little Lies by Liann Moriarity

This book has been made into a HBO series and it is not the same. The book, set in Australia, is great. The series is good too but different.  However, since this a book blog, I will deal only with the book!

Everyone has things in their lives which are not what is immediately evident to the public. We all have problems with those we love, with those in the community or with those in our work places.  Life in what we present to the outside world.  This book is so much about all these things and more.

While this is not the first book by this author, it is one of the best. She is a master of intrigue and suspense. From the early onset one does not realize the depth of secrecy and intrigue that comes with this book. Each couple appears to be normal, the children are loving and normal for their age group and strangers are just that. Little do we know that all things are interrelated! Should have suspected this having read several of her books.

Moving to a new place is always a challenge. How many of us expect to move to the source of our conflict! I must admit that the twists and turns of this book escaped my attention for a bit. Still, I was amazed at its ending.

Abuse, disjunction and secrecy are not new.  The author takes us through what is a normal process where the women work through all that happens to them. Dealing with a teenage daughter, with a divorce and co-parenting, are all issues I can imagine any modern family facing. While many of these events arise in life, hopefully, one does not deal with abuse especially to the point of death. 

I found it interesting that Ziggy was so accepting of all situations despite having the same genetic makeup as the twins. I was also intrigued that the twins were such opposites.

Great book with lots of twists to keep the reader involved.

Hidden Figures by Margot Lee Shetterly

I am a Social Science major and I had never heard of these women!  That is disgraceful. Katherine Johnson even grew up in West Virginia, my home state and still I heard and learned nothing of her contributions to the space race. My interest in the seeing the movie led me to read the book first. I know myself well enough that if I see the movie first, I am less likely to read the book.

Whenever I hear Langley, I think CIA, not NASA.  The book is well written. I will admit that much of the technical and math stuff I did not comprehend as fully as someone who is good in those areas might. I enjoyed the book from the personal aspects it includes which allows the reader to get to know these ladies better.  Most women would have given up but not these ladies.  I also found it interesting that they were referred to as computers. John Glenn and others relied on their computations to get them into orbit and back home.  Even after the computers we know today began to appear, the human computers were considered more trustworthy. It was also fascinating that the men working in the field did not trust the women until they proved themselves smarter than they were! 

I can not imagine being told not to go into a field simply because I was a woman, let alone having to do it as a person of color.  Their fortitude in following their dreams is amazing. The family sacrifices are extreme.  The lack of equal pay and access unfortunately was the norm then. I enjoyed reading that these women stood up for themselves in days when that could have made their lives more difficult.

Other things I enjoyed about the book include learning about the community development of the Hampton Roads area.  I wonder what these neighborhoods look like today? My guess is that most are still well kept middle class communities. 

Since reading the book I have seen the movie and also watched the interview between Barbara Harris and Katherine Johnson. At 99, Mrs. Johnson is still sharp as a tack and can calculate math with the best of them.  She cleared up a couple of things about the movie that had been added for theatrical effect such as bathrooms in separate buildings and who made the coffee.

A Man Called Ove by Fredrik Backman

As life changes one must always remember that life has purpose.  Ove thought his life was over and he had no reason to continue. Enter so many characters who need him! First the cat, then the new neighbors, then folks from the neighborhood. Each new person brings consternation and rebirth to Ove.

Ove wants to die. However, Ove is a meticulous person so everything has to be done just right.  He has routines. He is the self-proclaimed neighborhood watch for the community.  Not a man of many words, he still offers assistance to anyone who needs it, all the while continuing his curmudgeonly ways. He goes to his wife’s grave to visit and talks with her about all the things going on and how awful things are. She “tells” him how to continue living.

Ove is a man who has always done the right thing and helping others is the right thing. I love how he offers to teach Parvaneh to drive, help Patrick fix things, works with Jimmy to get him some exercise, helps Anita and Rune stay together in the house and restores the relationship between Mirsad and his father.  And the cat!  He hates the cat but feeds it because Sonya would want him to do so. He and the cat become inseparable. 

Each new person and each new day brings more and more reasons why Ove needs to live.  Just like for most of us, we need to know that we matter. We need to have someone who needs us. He becomes Granddad to Patrick and Parvaneh’s children.  Children often bring out the best in someone and this is true here. 

I love the community that exists here.  Everyone relies on each other and looks out for each other.  In the end, folks were still doing things their way despite his instructions to the contrary. The fact that so many pay their respects to the old, “bitter” man is a testament to the life he lived and the value he had. A true feel good story!

The Last Days of Night by Graham Moore

This historic novel tells the story of the conflict and competition between Nikola Tesla, George Westinghouse and Thomas Edison.  It does not make Edison look good! It is based on the actual legal battles between Westinghouse and Edison.  It is from the perspective of Westinghouse’s attorney, Paul Cravath. It has a bit of everything from espionage to attempted murder and one is always guessing who is responsible for each.

Tesla is at the center of all things. His work with electricity and the light bulb are central to the conflict. Edison was the first to patent the light bulb but according to the story actually got the patent prior to completing his light bulb. Tesla could care less about the patent as he was much more interested in creating a better product. Westinghouse wanted the patent for the better light bulb and was willing to go to great lengths to get it. Edison was backed by JP Morgan and benefited greatly for that relationship.

There was a court case over the patent of the light bulb and Westinghouse eventually won the right to produce his own light bulb without having to pay Edison for each one he produced.  Tesla would go on the produce many electrical improvements. Those are facts and the book makes the facts come alive by adding the elements of legal competition to the story.  Cravath has to run back and forth between Pittsburgh and New York to serve his client.  He focuses on his one client while letting other things slide and is taken advantage of in the process. His relationships with colleagues, with his socialite girlfriend and others have many ups and downs giving the reader a reason to continue.

I liked the book and feel it was even more interesting than The Sherlockain we read earlier by Graham Moore. 

Straight Man by Richard Russo

I am not sure I understand the title as I do not think it applies to the main character.  William Henry Devereaux, Jr. seemed anything but straight. He liked to think of his wife having affairs, had sexual thoughts about his secretary and a grad student. Maybe the fact that he thought without acting made him the straight man.  He also was not the best liked person on the campus.  His department seemed to relish filing grievances against him. This being said, I went on line to see why the book was so well received.

A straight man is the person who gives insight into a comedy. Having read that I can see the title has relevance.  The life WHD, Jr lived was a comedy, or so he thought. He might simply have been trying to rationalize his complacency in living on the reputation built by his first, and only, novel.  One might psychoanalyze him as being another man trying to live up to and make amends for the mistakes his father had.  While he had thoughts about other women and never acted upon them, his father seemed to go after many women, switching one for the next until he finally returned home to his first wife and the mother of his child when he was ill.

One thing I did like about the book was when he learned that his father was not the great teacher he though. Dad got stage fright.  WHD, Jr was surprised by this.

The relationships with his own daughters seemed to reflect the relationship he had with his own parents. Everyone in the book is flawed.  Some drink too much, some spend too much. Others are hanging on in jobs they should give up. 

As strange as I found the book, I did recognize a lot of educational politics in the book.  That made it a bit more real for me.

As this is presented as a comedy I will admit that I found the parts with the duck/goose hilarious!

The Storied Life of A J Fikry by Gabrielle Zevin

This summer I have read two books about bookstore owners and each was interesting and different. This story is heartwarming as well as fun to read.  I enjoyed the way the author began each chapter with a portion of another’s short story. It was like a prelude to what was to follow.  Every life has a story and how we tell it is unique.  AJ Fikry’s life was that at well.

He is essentially a loner. He lives on an island. His wife has died and he has no interest in pursuing anyone else.  However, when he finds a baby left in his bookstore he changes.  He recognizes that the idea of keeping the child by himself is crazy but cannot let her go into foster care.  I think he might not have been the loner he thought!  Maya brought a different story to his life and filled him with love and hope.

This book has many twists and turns.  People are not who they are first introduced as being. The policeman, Lambiase, is not a reader but reads a lot. He makes excuses to come the store so he can help with the child. He gets AJ to buy books his co-workers would read, begins book clubs and eventually takes over the bookstore. Leon Friedman is supposedly the author that brought Amelia and AJ together but when he is introduced we see that he not only could not have written the book but probably would not have written anything!  Leonora Ferris has her own reasons for writing under a pseudonym but probably because she thought no one would take her seriously. I think this is the author’s story becoming intertwined in the book.

One twist I enjoyed was finding out that Maya was Daniel Parrish’s daughter. Ismay was furious with him, a notorious womanizer, for denying her the child she so wanted.  I did not see her killing him though. Technically, it was an automobile accident but, he still died.  Doubt he would ever have changed despite his vow to do so.

I also enjoyed that Ismay and Lambiase take over the bookstore after AJ’s death.  Many believe the print book is dying but I still love to wonder the aisles of a bookstore and actually prefer reading paper over e-readers.  I wonder if having AJ die was alluding to the death of the bookstore?

There is much more to like in this book and I look forward to our discussions.